Gabby: (little black 4 year old) I have a mom. She's on vacation.
me: Oh that sounds like fun. I bet you'll be glad when she gets back.
gabby: Well, no. She's not really on vacation. That's just what they keep telling me. She's in jail.
me: Oh goodness. Well, I'm sure you miss her.
gabby: She got in a car wreck then went to jail. That's when they said she went of vacation but she didn't.
me: Well, it's still okay to miss her.
Later... (Crew is also in this class- he's the only boy)
gabby: Why'd you let that white boy go before me?
me: Well, it was his turn to go first. You went first last time. And let's not call him 'white boy' his name is Crew.
gabby: Yeah but I don't like white boys.
me: Okay Gabby, let's look at some things. Does he have fingers like you?
gabby: yes
me: Does he have eyes like you?
gabby: yes
me: It doesn't matter what color anyone is. We have a lot of things that are the same.
gabby: He's not the same. He doesn't match me.
me: That's good. The world would be really boring if we all matched each other.
gabby: Well I still think he's just a white boy, and I want a dragon fly to get him.
me: We are going to work on being nice to everyone... especially the people that don't match us.
gabby: Alright. I love you.
me: I love you too.
6 comments:
holy cow that's funny. very very funny. i can't wait to hear more conversations.
Wow! You are pretty patient. I probably would have freaked out and not known what to say! I'll bet you are a great teacher!
your situation sounds awesome!
wow. that's hilarious. you really handled her well.
You- I'm sure , are an awesome teacher! I'd love to send my kids to your class. My "white boy" could join your "white boy"!!
Wow! Just, wow. Great way to handle it! She doesn't seem to mind that you are a white girl. ;)
I'm glad the jobs are working out for you! Why is it that you are poorer during residency than in med school? I have asked myself that so many times the last four years!
I can't stand it. That is so funny. Lexie is the only "white girl" in her gymnastics class too. That's right, in Caldwell!
I love this post.
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